
SOCIALITE Mai Jeremaya is currently facing severe backlash and cyberbullying on social media.
This is after a court case where she accused two Harare men of raping her at a lodge in the city.
Following a court ruling that acquitted Thabo Dube and Martin Charlie, the public’s outrage has intensified, with many directing their anger towards Jeremaya, particularly after her recent appearance on DJ Ollah’s podcast.
Critics have taken to social media platforms, with one individual tweeting, describing Mai Jeremaya with all kinds of names and that she instituted court action “because she didn’t get paid”, while others accuse her of attempting to humiliate her husband.
Many have dug up her past, including bringing back an explicit video with Zimdancehall musician Platinum Prince, to further their disdain.
The situation escalated as users claimed that she was undermining real victims of rape, with comments like: “Mai Jeremaya makes real rape victims look bad; she shouldn’t be given an audience.”
As the vitriol continues to escalate online, mental health experts warn of the damaging effects of cyberbullying.
Cynthia Chiwandire, a mental health professional, explains that cyberbullying can severely impact self-esteem and confidence.
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“Public humiliation and constant negative reinforcement can lead individuals to internalise harmful messages, fostering feelings of shame and unworthiness,” she cautions.
The long-term effects of such online harassment can be profound.
Chiwandire notes that victims may experience chronic anxiety, depression, and even Post Traumatic Stress Disorder-like symptoms.
“In severe cases, the emotional pain can lead to self-harm or suicidal ideation,” she adds.
With the rise of cyberbullying, particularly in high-profile cases like Mai Jeremaya’s, there is growing concern that future victims of sexual assault, particularly socialites or even celebrities, may hesitate to come forward due to fear of backlash and negative publicity.
The stigma surrounding such incidents can discourage victims from seeking justice or support.
Chiwandire emphasises the importance of developing coping strategies to manage the emotional fallout from cyberbullying.
“Limiting exposure to social media, seeking support from trusted individuals, and practising self-compassion are crucial steps in maintaining mental well-being,” she advises.
Therapy can also play a vital role in recovery, providing a safe environment for individuals to process their experiences and rebuild their self-esteem.
“Therapists can help victims challenge negative thought patterns and develop healthy coping mechanisms,” Chiwandire explains.
Organisations like the Zimbabwe Anti-Cyber Bullying Trust are working to raise awareness and provide support to victims of cyberbullying.
Educational interventions are being explored to change attitudes and behaviours toward this pervasive issue, particularly among adolescents.
As the conversation around cyberbullying grows, it is vital to recognise its psychological effects and the societal responsibility to foster a supportive environment for victims.
Reaching out for help is a crucial step toward healing, and resources are available for those who feel isolated and alone.
In a world increasingly defined by digital interactions, the need for empathy and understanding has never been more critical.
As we navigate these complex social dynamics, let us strive to uplift rather than tear down, ensuring that every voice is heard and respected.
For support, individuals can contact mental health professionals or organisations dedicated to combating cyberbullying.